Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Feng Shui Tips for Love and Romance

Feng shui is the ancient Chinese art and science of arranging one's environment to be in harmony with nature's energy.  Whether you are single or in a relationship,Valentine's Day is a great day to spend a few minutes improving the feng shui of the "marriage / relationship" corner of your master bedroom.

To start, locate the marriage corner of your room. Stand in the doorway so that you're facing into the room. The far right corner of the room is your marriage corner:

finding marriage relationship corner feng shui the red chair blogTake a look at your marriage corner.  Is it piled to the ceiling with dirty laundry? Is it home to your video collection of every episode of "Divorce Court" that ever aired? Is it where you showcase your prized prickly cactus or your pet piranha, "Jaws"?  Or maybe it holds accidental symbols of solitude and unrequited love, such as this sad little perpetually-puckering figurine?

I once worked with a single client who discovered, much to her dismay, that her marriage corner held two overflowing garbage cans!  Another client laughingly observed that the display shelf in her marriage corner had been home to the cremated remains of her pets.  She quipped, "You mean I'm not supposed to have dead animals in my marriage corner?!"

Think about the symbolism of the objects in this corner of the room.  If an object doesn't symbolize love, partnership, and affection--and your current relationship--it doesn't belong in the marriage corner!

So what does belong in your marriage corner?  Here are some suggestions:
  • Photos of you and your beloved together.  Wedding photos are wonderful here!
  • Thriving, growing houseplants
  • Fresh flowers 
  • Your wedding cake topper  (But if you saved and dried your bridal bouquet, display it elsewhere; dried flowers are a feng shui "no-no" because they are technically...dead!)
  • Candles (pairs are best)
  • Framed love letters or framed quotes about love
  • Pairs that represent love to you (for example, two "lovebirds")
  • Heart-shaped objects
  • Your marriage certificate or framed wedding invitation
The colors that are said to enhance this area are red, white, and pink. What a coincidence: Valentine colors! Pink can be tough to incorporate into most of today's color schemes, but red and white are good candidates. You may even be able to repurpose a few of your Valentine's Day decorations or cards here year-round. 

This set of 2 Elufly porcelain mini heart dishes is a textbook example of what to display in your marriage corner.  This affordable set gets points in three categories: it's a pair, it's white, and it's also heart-shaped!

While feng shui-ing the marriage corner is helpful, it's also important to take a step back to assess the master bedroom as a whole from the perspective of whether it can accommodate the needs of just one person or two.  Is the bed wedged into a corner, or are both sides of the bed easily accessible? Are there two nightstands and two table lamps flanking the bed, or only one?

When I work with single clients, I often notice that they have only one nightstand and/or one bedside lamp in the master bedroom.  Sometimes they have stored the second, matching nightstand in the attic or in a closet, explaining that they "don't need it".  I encourage single clients to symbolically make space for a future partner by including a pair of nightstands and a pair of lamps flanking the bed in the master bedroom.

Pairs hold symbolic power in a master bedroom.  But feng shui aside, pairs also add nice visual symmetry, and a pair of lovely, matching lamps can sometimes be the finishing touch that elevates the room to "finished" status.  The two nightstands don't need to be identical, but they should be of similar height, color, and visual weight.  In a small bedroom, a pair of petite dressers can serve as nightstands, eliminating the need for a single larger chest of drawers or a large dresser.

Be creative and have fun! Happy Valentine's Day!

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Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Bicycle Napkin Rings at Steinmart

I recently saw these fun, red bicycle napkin rings on clearance at Steinmart, and I couldn't resist snapping a photo with my phone to share.  Priced at $1.95 each--with additional coupons available--they're a whimsical design surprise for your table, especially if your family loves bikes and bike riding!

Given their cheerful red color, they could be pressed into service for several different holidays too.  Pair them with patriotic place mats for the Fourth of July, or wrap a little sprig of faux holly berries and leaves around the handlebars at Christmas.  When Valentine's Day rolls around (no pun intended), these little bikes can partner with pink and white table linens.

I have a special place in my heart for all things bicycle-related because I rode an older, red "Gypsy Sport" bike as my primary form of transportation all through my undergraduate years.  There were more bikes than people in our CA college town, and the town was designed to be bike-friendly, with abundant bike lanes and bike parking.  Though many bikes were stolen every year, no one ever stole "the Gypsy"!

Friday, June 3, 2016

DIY Small Space Laundry System Revisited

In January of 2010, I wrote a post in which I shared my small space laundry solution: hanging two hanging laundry bags on double hooks one above the other on the back of a bathroom door to hold two full loads of dirty laundry without taking up any floor space.  The original post--which includes detailed DIY instructions for painting the bags--can be found here

Over the years, my DIY laundry system post has consistently been one of my top ten most visited posts.  Apparently Don Henley was right: people really do love dirty laundry!  Today, I wanted to circle back to reaffirm my love for these bags.  I'm happy to report that they are still going strong 7+ years after purchase. 

In my former home, I hung the bags one above the other on the back of the bathroom door as seen in these photos from 2010:

The system worked beautifully; the only problem that I noticed over the years was that when both bags were completely full of laundry, they threw off the alignment of the door a bit due to the weight.  This problem corrected itself as soon as the bags were "reset" to empty again.

After moving to a new house that has a bathroom layout without space behind the door, I decided to use drywall anchors to hang the bags on a side wall in my master bedroom closet.  Though the closet is tiny by today's standards--less than 4 feet wide and just over 3 feet deep--the bags fit right in.  The photo below shows placement.  Full disclosure: despite my appreciation of the KonMari Method and my earnest efforts at decluttering, I do in fact own more than one outfit!

This photo was taken last summer, but even today, these laundry bags look great and are still sturdy and strong.  In this day of planned obsolescence, it's refreshing to discover products that last.

I love these bags.  They're sturdy, affordable, easy to carry in one hand, and each bag holds a full load of laundry.  The hook at the top of the bag comes in handy for hanging the bag when you are transferring clothes to the washing machine. They're sold plain, but you can easily personalize them as I did in my original post.  The right organizing tools can make all the difference!

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Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Sweet and Simple Cloth Beach Balls

To continue my series on handmade kids' toys, here's one of my favorite DIY toy projects.  Cloth beach balls are simple to sew, and they make adorable baby gifts.  For preschoolers, they're a soft, gentle, less-destructive ball for indoor play.  As an added bonus, due to their patchwork nature, they can be made from smaller scraps of fabric that are left over from other projects.

I discovered this project on the Purl Soho website many years ago.  This link will take you to Purl's beautiful and detailed tutorial, including templates to make three different sized beach balls.

When I followed the Purl tutorial the first time, I came across one challenge.  The instructions suggested cutting the center circle from cotton fabric, folding the edges under, and then hand stitching it onto the ball.  This turned out to be easier said than done!

Here is the first ball that I made for a sweet friend's baby boy.  Despite my best efforts, the blanket stitch around the central circle came out looking more than a little homemade!

As a scandalous side note, the plaid fabric was actually snipped from an ill-fitting sundress.  Sorry, Ann T., but crafting trumps fashion!  And as I've said in past posts, when you think like a Martian, you don't see tablecloths, pillowcases, dresses, or curtains.  You just see fabric!

I made another beach ball for a sweet baby girl.  That time, I used fleece for the center circle.  I cut the edges of the circle with pinking sheers to reduce fraying, and then hand stitched it onto the ball.  As you can see from the photo, I use the term "circle" loosely!

I made the ball below for my daughter around five year ago from mismatched fabric scraps selected purely for their "fun factor".  If my memory serves, an oxford shirt may have been sacrificed for the black and white gingham, and the purple fleece came from an outgrown sweatshirt.

Again, I cut the sweatshirt fleece with pinking sheers, and I stitched it on "wrong-side-out" for the center circle.  I preferred the texture of the underside of the fleece fabric.  Reversed fabric can be used in home decorating too, as I discussed in this post.

If you'd like to make a cloth beach ball but don't have fabric scraps on hand, Amazon offers some neat fabric bundles like this one by Amy Butler.  You may want to compare dimensions with the Purl template prior to placing an online order, as some bundle shapes (eg: smaller squares) might not work for this project.

My daughter's favorite way to play with this ball was to sit at the bottom of the stairs, throw the ball up to a higher stair, and laugh as it gently bounced back down to her.  Despite this ball's involvement in more than one pillow fight, it has never been implicated in any bumped noses or broken vases a la Peter Brady.  What's not to love!?

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Sunday, January 24, 2016

Painted Pistachio Shell Cars & A Free Printable

We're snowed in here in North Carolina, so I thought that this would be a great time to continue my series about handmade toys that I have made for my daughter over the years.  If you're snowed in with your kiddos, you can whip up a fleet of these tiny, adorable pistachio shell cars in no time.  I've also provided a free, printable PDF of the backdrop that you and your kids can color!

Back in 2012, when my daughter was three years old, two things happened simultaneously:

1. My family purchased--and devoured--an enormous bag of pistachio nuts.

2. I discovered the wonderful, printable paper toys on the Made By Joel website. 

The synergy of these two life-altering events inspired me to dream up this easy craft project that uses pistachio shells along with a printable backdrop for play.

For an investment of just a few minutes of my time and a few pennies worth of craft paint, I created a fun set that my daughter really enjoyed.  Vroom, vroom!

Are you ready to make some cars of your own? 

How to Make the Cars:

Empty shells from pistachio nuts (washed out and dried)
Craft paint (ie: acrylic paint) in several colors, including white
Small paint brushes (Q-tips could work in a pinch!)
Black fine point Sharpie marker
Toothpicks--flat or round will work
Old clothing or art smocks to protect kids' clothes


1. Gather your materials, cover your work surfaces, and put art smocks on your kids (acrylic paint will stain fabric and clothing).

2. Using small paint brushes and colored craft paint, cover the pistachio shell halves with paint and allow them to dry.  You won't need to wait very long; acrylics dry quickly!

3. Use a black Sharpie marker to draw on the tires.

4. Use a toothpick and white craft paint to add hubcaps (a single dot of paint) and windows (the side of the toothpick point is useful for "smearing" the windows on).

5. Use a toothpick to add bumpers if desired.  I used a grayish purple color for mine.

6. Allow to dry, and play, play, PLAY!

How to Make the Printable Paper Backdrop:

White letter sized printer paper or card stock (the latter will stand up better)
Crayons, colored pencils, and/or markers for coloring (yellow hilighters are great for "glowing" windows)

1. Download the free, printable PDF of the "Pistachio Lane" backdrop from my website.  You can find it by clicking here (no sign up is required).  If you don't see the link, try refreshing the page.
2. Print it out on your printer.
3. Color it in using colored pencils, crayons, and/or markers.
4. Fold at the edge where the houses meet the driveways, as pictured.
5. Play, play, PLAY!

At the risk of craft-bragging, I love that this project is green and eco-friendly, inexpensive, quick, easy, and kid-friendly!  It would be a great group craft activity for a kids' party or even a summer camp.  As an added plus, the finished product will take up very little storage space in your home.  However, there are two safety issues to consider.  First, due to the choking hazard, this project (and the resulting toy) is best suited for kids age 3 and up.  Also, pistachio nuts are an allergen for some children, so please exercise caution during playdates.

After you have made your first set, there's a lot of room to expand on this idea.  Maybe you'll print several copies of "Pistachio Lane" and connect them side by side to make a larger neighborhood?  Or you can draw a whole paper downtown that connects to "Pistachio Lane", with a library, ice cream store, or other businesses!

Maybe your little one might enjoy drawing his or her own backdrop (including a "parking lot"), as my daughter did when she was three.

Or maybe you'll be inspired to create other things out of pistachio shells, craft paint, and a Sharpie.  How about a tiny set of ladybug buddies that are just the right size to slip into your pocket to keep your kiddo entertained on an airplane or in a restaurant?

Or a minuscule mouse with his own paper wedge of Swiss cheese? The harsh lighting in this photo gives it a "crime scene" effect; maybe the cheese was actually stolen from some other mouse's Swiss account?!

Have fun, and happy crafting!

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Thursday, January 7, 2016

Make A Quick and Easy January Wreath

After taking down my Christmas wreath this year, I realized that I didn't have a "January-Appropriate" wreath for my front door, so I decided to make one.  I relied on a principle that I apply often in my design work--and in life in general.  Here's the principle: assume that you already have everything that you need.  Operating from this assumption boosts my creativity.  (Also, it's fun, and it doesn't require clipping coupons.)  If you have a winter scarf, a wreath, and some wire, you can make a similar January wreath in about 15 minutes.

First, I dug in my coat closet looking for inspiration, and I unearthed a blue and white striped scarf.  Perfect!  Next, I needed a wreath form.  This project could work with an artificial pine wreath, a grapevine wreath, a straw wreath, a burlap wreath, or really any wreath or wreath-like object that's plain enough to play nicely with your chosen scarf.  (The links above will take you to see 18" wreaths on Amazon, though you may need to select one with a smaller diameter depending upon the length of your scarf.)

As luck would have it, I had on hand a simple, artificial pine, 18 inch wreath bedecked with only a few despondent pinecones.  I removed the pinecones (reserving the floral wire that had connected them to the wreath), and I was left with this blank, pseudo-pine slate:

I wanted a jaunty knot in my scarf, but I knew from personal experience (ie: from wearing this scarf) that real scarf knots are bulky and awkward.  This situation called for a "faux knot".  I wasn't sure how to create one, but I decided to experiment.  I lay my scarf out so that one end overlapped the other:

Then I used a piece of wire to "bunch" one end of the scarf around the other.  In the photo below, end #1 lies in a straight line through the "tunnel" created by the wire-gathered loop in end #2.

Once "Operation Jaunty Knot" had been successfully accomplished, I lay the scarf out on my wreath to estimate how many gathers would look best.  The faux knot allowed me to adjust the length a little if needed.

I had 6 pieces of floral wire left over from the pinecones, so I decided to use one piece to attach the faux knot to the wreath and the other 5 to create the 6 "bunched" sections of scarf.  If you don't have floral wire on hand, you can use a series of twist ties connected end to end, thread, yarn, dental floss, twine, ribbon, zip ties, or whatever you have on hand.  Be creative, and trust that you have what you need.  

I accordion-pleated the scarf wherever I wanted to connect it to the wreath, and then I wrapped it tight with wire.

Here's a photo of what the wreath looked like when it was halfway finished.  If you're working with a repeating pattern, you can use the fabric repeat to help space your "gathers".  Or you can wing it.  It's only a wreath!

Within 15 minutes, I was finished!  The wreath formerly known as "Christmas" had been successfully transformed into a wintry January wreath.

Now, it hangs on my front door inviting guests to come inside and get cozy:

Happy New Year from The Red Chair Blog! 

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Thursday, August 6, 2015

DIY Play "Cakes" from Your Recycle Bin!

In honor of summer vacation, I decided to write a series sharing some homemade toys that I have made for and with my daughter over the years.  It's funny: she has plenty of store bought toys, and yet she has always gravitated most to the homemade ones (and she often creates her own).  Maybe we humans are just hardwired to be drawn to items crafted by loving, local hands?

We made these pretend "cakes" several years ago with plastics from our recycle bin and craft supplies that we had on hand.  They are so fun and easy to make; the possibilities are endless! Whether globbed with glitter, crusted with confetti, or piled with pom-poms, these cakes will never fall!  They're perfect for pretend play (bakery, anyone?), and I think that they would also make adorable DIY props for portrait photography.

In lieu of a tedious step-by-step tutorial that will trigger traumatic memories of your last visit to the DMV, here's a photo that breaks down one "cake" into its "ingredients":

Basically, the "cake" can be made from an overturned sour cream container, Greek yogurt container, deli container, Parmesan container, or similar-sized plastic container.  The "cake stand" can be made from anything wide and flat--such as an oatmeal lid or small Styrofoam plate--paired with an overturned plastic cup, large cap (eg: mouth wash), or one of those little round take-out containers used for salad dressings and salsa.

You will need hot glue and a hot glue gun to assemble the larger components and to add the 3-dimensional decorations, such as pipe cleaners and pom-poms.  Dollar Tree is an affordable source for these embellishments if you're on a budget.  For the record, I think the "cake stands" exponentially increase the cuteness factor here, if we're getting scientific about it.

When we did this project, my daughter was around 4 years old.  My job was hot gluing, and my daughter did the painting and decorating.  If I were to attempt this project with a larger group of kids, I would use hot glue to pre-glue a bunch of "cakes" onto "cake stands", drape every kid in an art smock, and then let them loose with acrylic craft paint, Elmer's glue, ribbon, felt, scissors, silk flowers, sequins, and paper confetti (perhaps pausing to let the paint dry before gluing on the other decorations).

I have a friend whose only daughter is now grown.  That friend once told me that she used to refer to pretend play as, "The Dreaded 'P'" when her daughter was young, because pretend play can sometimes feel like work to adults!  Her daughter would rush into the house after preschool and breathlessly call, "Mommy, Mommy, can we play 'The Dreaded 'P' now?"

If you have young kids and struggle sometimes with "The Dreaded 'P'", here's an idea for a fun way to play with these pretend cakes together.  Have your little one pretend to be the shopkeeper (use play money if you want to incorporate stealth math), and you can play the silly characters coming into the bakery in urgent need of cakes for a variety of ridiculous reasons.  When we played "bakery", my default characters were usually a cowboy, a teenage skateboarder, a wealthy lady (complete with my embarrassing attempt at a British accent), a baby (who always finagled free baked goods), and (my daughter's favorite) an elderly lady who had misplaced her glasses and believed she was in the pet store.

Have fun and be silly with this fun, faux food!